Hi @lakshmi,
I’m so glad you raised this question as it provided a prompt to further study the resurrection. In the fascinating book Jesus, the Final Days: What Really Happened, N.T. Wright clearly explains what the New Testament teaches us about the meaning of resurrection.
First, I think his definition is very helpful:
All this ignores a rather obvious fact: the word “resurrection” never did mean “disembodied bliss.” Furthermore, in the New Testament itself, the word “resurrection” does not mean “life after death.” It meant, and means, what I call “life after life after death.” Although this is quite a difficult idea for some to get a hold of, if you go back to the ancient world, whether pagan or Jewish, the word “resurrection,” along with its various cognates in other languages, is clearly not a way of talking about the destiny of people immediately after death. It is a way of referring to a newly embodied life at some time beyond that point. The simplest way to see this is to think of Jesus’ words to the brigand on the cross: “Today you will be with me in Paradise” (Luke 23:43). But, as Luke makes clear, Jesus wasn’t raised until Sunday. “Paradise” must therefore refer to the place, or state, of blissful waiting before the bodily resurrection (Kindle Locations 787-793). Kindle Edition.
There’s a nice section here in the book where Wright explains how different this understanding of ‘resurrection’ is from many modern versions.
Second, I noticed the tie between the resurrection and the forgiveness of sins. I think N.T.'s argument in the following section is helpful here:
Almost everywhere else in the New Testament, where you find people talking about Jesus’ resurrection, you find them also talking about our own future resurrection, the final hope that one day we will be raised as Jesus has been raised. But the Gospels never say anything like, “Jesus is raised, therefore there is a life after death” (not that many first-century Jews doubted that there was); or, “Jesus is raised, therefore we shall go to heaven when we die” (most people believed something like that anyway); or better, “Jesus is raised, therefore we shall be raised at the last.” No: insofar as the event is interpreted in Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John, it has a very “this-worldly” meaning, relating to what is happening here and now. “Jesus is raised,” they say, “therefore he is the Messiah; he is the true Lord of the whole world; therefore we, his followers, have a job to do: we must act as his heralds, announcing his lordship to the entire world.” It is not, “Jesus is raised, therefore look up into the sky and keep looking because one day you will be going there with him.” Many hymns, prayers, and Christian sermons have tried to pull the Easter story in that direction, but the line of thought within the Gospels themselves is, Jesus is raised, therefore God’s new world has begun, and therefore we, you, and everybody else are invited to be not only beneficiaries of that new world but participants in making it happen." (Kindle Locations 1043-1052).
I see two key ideas here: first, it is thoroughly Biblical to connect the resurrection to our final hope.
However, second, in the Gospels, the resurrection is primarily spoken of as validation that Jesus is Messiah, the true Lord, and we are to go and announce this news.
But zooming out a bit, it seems to me there’s a bigger question or set of values that create a gap in this discussion with your relative. N.T. Wright goes on to say:
But the point about Judaism and Christianity is that they are focused on creation; that is, they believe in a God who made the world of space, time, and matter and who wants to reclaim it. Thus, what happens in the real world actually matters (Kindle Locations 1082-1084).
To bring it all together, I wonder how to communicate this core idea to your family member - that the real world actually matters?
When our bodies get hungry or sick, this often clarifies how much we value our physicality? And when we mourn the death of a loved one or are approaching death ourselves, it is entirely appropriate to grieve the end of embodied life. I am unfamiliar with this person’s cultural and religious background, but as someone who bears God’s image in their creational context, I believe there must be many connecting points.
On this point, it seems to me that what their religion denies, their very embodied being is speaking. How could you hear that voice together?
Second, the embodied resurrection of Jesus speaks to this fundamental human concern. Not only is God dealing with our sin on the cross - a claim vindicated by the miracle of resurrection - but God is showing us what redemption looks like as the disciples witness the transformed, perfect, everlasting, and yet wholly physical, resurrection body of Jesus.
That is, what does it mean to have our sins forgiven? The embodied resurrection of Jesus shows us a foretaste of the new creation that God has begun and will complete.
I look forward to learning more as I listen to your response, if desired, and any other participants.