I used to think being quick with words meant I was clever until I realized how often I used them to protect myself, impress others, or tear someone down.
Let’s explore what it means to be slow to speak, and how our words can reflect the wisdom and love of God.
Reflection and Discussion Questions:
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Think about your own family or social environments growing up. Where did you first learn how to use words to gain status, get laughs, or defend yourself?
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Reflect on a time when your quick response or “clever” comment damaged a relationship or created conflict you didn’t expect.
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Think about someone you genuinely respect and trust. Are they typically the person who always has something to say, or someone who chooses their words carefully?
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How might slowing down your speech help you manage anger differently?
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Who in your life do you feel safest talking to? What is it about how they communicate that makes you trust them?